Pessimism is so unattractive.

I consider myself quite the catch. I'm in no way trying to sit here and say I don't have flaws. I still have a lot to learn as far as relationships are concerned, however, anyone who knows me, knows that I am the full package. So, rather than trying so damn hard to find someone worth the effort, I'm not going to bother. I'm done pursuing anybody. If you want me, come and get me. It shouldn't be like pulling teeth to try and appeal to somebody. I am accepting of others' flaws. I try my darndest to focus on the good in people, unless you give me a reason to make you aware of unnecessary negativity that can make or break the slightest chance in hell you have with me. I do not find pessimistic attitudes attractive. Life is too short and too awesome to focus on the negative ALL the time. It's not that hard to see the good in people or the good in a bad situation. It's not candy-coating a bad situation by pointing out the good things, it's overcoming the bad. As simple as that is, it is what it is. Rather than wallowing in your misery, surround yourself with people who can influence you to think outside your miserable, Debbie-Downer, box. It's okay to be spontaneous, to let loose, and LIVE no matter your circumstances. You can't control everything! It's impossible.